Thriving on Adversity

Adversity

 

 

Natural systems become stronger each time they’re confronted by a disruptive event. They improve not by resisting change but by adapting to changing circumstances. You might say that they learn from experience. In biology, the best “mistakes” – mutations that bestow an advantage – endure, while those that don’t eventually disappear.

 

The same rules apply to systems created by humans. Yet many people want to stop that undulating course of the world’s complex systems by trying to fight or even eliminate inherent fluctuations. From finance to education, they want to get rid of the natural stressors. They envisage a scenario where major events are predicted so that the most disruptive can be avoided. They want a graph where the line showing events and their magnitude over a specific period is as close to a straight line as possible.

 

In economics and finance, they aim to all but flatten the business cycle. In education, they want to make every child’s achievements equal. So, some schools have eliminated red correction marks because they might undermine the confidence of sensitive children. In school sports, they award medals to every participating child, telling them that they’re all winners and that nobody lost. (See my blog: “Education and Parenting: Are We Sowing the Seeds of Disaster?”)

 

In the financial world, governments and central banks aspire to remove natural market fluctuations by aggressive intervention policies and restrictive legislation. Not long before the 2008 financial crisis, they confidently predicted that their robust systems meant “the end of booms and busts,” while simultaneously allowing the development of banks that were too big to fail. When they did fail, the authorities forced the taxpayer to bail them out, yet didn’t hold any individual in those banks, or the agencies that regulated or rated them, personally liable. (See my blog: “Skin in the Game”). Many financial institutions have again become too big to fail because the authorities have yet to fundamentally change the system.

 

As individuals we too want to eliminate the ups and downs of nature and the systems that directly affect us. When we feel down, we demand anti-depressants from our doctors. When we ache, we expect another pill; we even want pills for ailments we don’t have “just in case.”

 

From children to politicians, educators to bankers, fewer of us stand on our own two feet and take responsibility for our actions. By removing too many of our natural challenges, we’re weakening our ability to handle the big ones. As a result, we’re becoming as vulnerable to unexpected events as ice cubes are to a sharp increase in temperature. We’re convinced that we can build a robust defense against every possible occurrence; that no matter how much the temperature rises, we can always build a better freezer.

 

It’s understandable that we should try to predict the future and build bigger and stronger defenses against perceived threats based on those predictions. Yet, for at least two reasons each approach is a waste of resources and doomed to fail much of the time. First, it’s nearly impossible to predict when we’ll be confronted by challenges and what kind of challenges they will be – we can’t even accurately forecast the weather for more than about a week. Second, by strengthening all the defenses to withstand challenges, we’re actually undermining the inherent abilities most systems have to become more resilient through dealing with stress.

 

We can learn much from our bodies. They grow stronger because they’re constantly exposed to mild stressors: If we don’t take regular exercise, for example, we become physically and mentally weaker, and less able to handle any stresses, particularly big ones. At the biological level, organisms become immune to diseases by developing resistance to them. In business, astute venture capitalists invest in entrepreneurs with innovative ideas. But they’re especially drawn to those who have steered a steady and honorable course through a prior business failure, and so are more likely to identify future dangers. (See my blog: “Must We Fail before We Succeed in Business.”)

 

According to Nassim Taleb, the noted Lebanese American scholar and author, we should build systems that are what he calls “antifragile.” Most people, he says, would suggest words like “robust” and “tough” as antonyms of “fragile” because robust and tough things are, by definition, not fragile. But antifragile doesn’t mean “not fragile.” Antifragile things are improved by the stresses of chaotic and unpredictable situations; they benefit from the encounters.

 

Taleb is right. We must become counterintuitive and accept that we cannot know the future. Rather than build robust defenses against every conceivable threat (which is impossible), we must strike a balance between reasonable defense and extraordinary flexibility. We must become more adaptable so that we can respond quickly to the unpredictable. We must be agile and learn from our mistakes. Only then can we become progressively better at dealing with both the future and the many challenges with which it will inevitably present us.

P.S. I highly recommend you read Antifragile: Things That Gain From Disorder by Nassim Nicholas Taleb.

Jeff Robinson

Contarian’s Mind 

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18 thoughts on “Thriving on Adversity

  1. Harry Garfinkle says:

    The ability to learn from our mistakes is vital to getting better at what we do. Our bodies teach us that the efforts to build up our strength by strong exercise pays off in big dividends. The unexpected happens all the time and we must build up the power to carry on in spite of these changes.

  2. MelanieLM says:

    Flexibility and adaptability in all things – finances, physical condition, and our personal lives – work so much better than toughness. I think much of the attitude that drives people to keep to that straight line chart you mention stems from the instant-gratification ‘need’ so many people these days have. They have a hard time recognizing that prolonged periods of being down in some way are eventually balanced.

  3. Taranu Cosmin Andrei says:

    Most of the people let themselves affected by the problems (financial, physical etc.) because they forget that they have the right to control them, not vice-versa.

  4. William Thomas says:

    For people to overcome trouble, somehow the protective factors in their lives have to outweigh the forces that drag them down. Some of these protective factors are present in resilient people themselves,characteristics like insight, independence, initiative, creativity, a strong ethical sense, and the ability to see the funny side of difficult situations. Other protective factors come from their environment.

  5. Jeson Traut says:

    I think while accounting for an immediate reaction to challenge, antifragility thus contributes to fitness. A remarkable property of antifragility is the fact that, by definition, an antifragile entity will react to changes by providing a solution that is not exactly programmed. Hence it does not have a fixed fitness:its response is context and time-dependent. This type of behavior is also the hallmark of tinkering,giving credence to Taleb’s reflection.

    Thanks for the nice article.

  6. Mark Baucher says:

    So far as believe-there is much to be learned from our failures as well. Though we often
    make accurate predictions, sometimes we don’t. Our performance is also mixed when it
    comes to another folk psychological practice—namely, explanation. Sometimes we give
    ostensibly correct explanations of people’s actions, but other times we miss the mark completely.Our failures are at least as interesting as our successes.

  7. Martin Daniel says:

    Failures in our ability to predict and explain human behavior have received some
    attention, but the bulk of it has come from those who argue for the elimination of folk psychology altogether.

    Jeff, Thanks for your constructive article.

  8. Mike Kazi says:

    Well said Jeff. I think that a good film or novel can invite or even force us to understand the motivations of the characters, even when the characters are terrible people or do horrible things. A film such as The Silence of the Lambs, that asks us to enter the mind of the killer, or Happiness, which presents the world from the perspective of a pedophile, provides us with the opportunity to explain the characters’ behaviors.

  9. Debbi S. says:

    Failures are so much more interesting that successes, except on the day a bill comes due. If there is nothing to overcome, in business and your personal life, there is no chance to become better. The culture of false self-esteem boosts will lead to weakness. People need to be allowed to fail.

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